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Last login: 5 hours agoCarouselle: Frangelica/Frangipani/Frannie for short is a single woman from My Tree House, Ohio, USA.; Likes 20,262 pages, 686 videos, 2,209 photos • 914 fans • Received 323 reviews; Member since Oct 09, 2005

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Aug 3, 6:59am: *Update* Nothing much new on my son's situation, but I'm doing a lot better emotionally. I've been very busy with work this week, which is good, because it's kept my mind occupied quite a bit. Thanks to all for the support and encouragement. I really do appreciate it.

To my fans and friends, Please forgive me if I seem withdrawn or unresponsive right now. Something awful happened to my son very early this morning. Someone set his truck on fire. He has no insurance and his whole life depends on that truck. I have no idea what is going to happen to him.

Please bear with me as I am on the very edge of depression. I may be here, but only to keep my mind occupied so that I don't lose it completely. I know this sounds outrageously dramatic, but if you knew the whole story, believe me, you wouldn't think so. For right now, I am completely out of laughter, jokes or even kind words for anyone. I am hanging on by a thread.

- Frannie

Ex-Boyfriend Jewelry: Aug 2, 6:01pm 8 reviews shopping •http://www.exboyfriendjewelry.com/; A site no self-respecting woman should be without!!

Taringa! - Megapost Imagenes Fantasticas: Aug 2, 5:34pm 40 reviews arts •http://www.taringa.net/posts/imagenes...; Some great artwork but the site is very sluggish and slow to respond.

tiny ghosts, 16: Aug 2, 12:08pm 2 reviews humor •http://www.tinyghosts.com/archive/tin...; Ah, don't we all?

Aug 2, 9:16am: I don't know, I just thought it was cute.

http://lh3.ggpht.com/2974690/SGDudXFxldI/AAAAAAAAJaA/t2Uc2pXBA9M/s1600-h/funny_k…: Aug 2, 9:10am 7 reviews cats •http://lh3.ggpht.com/2974690/SGDudXFx...; These kitties are so hot they singed the window frame!

wannabe hippie - where geek meets granola - Recent Ramblings - An open letter…: Aug 1, 5:26pm 17 reviews women •http://www.wannabehippie.com/blog/200...; I don't usually post things as long as this, but I thought this was so honest and true that I wanted to share it. Every one should heed the advice contained in it. There should also be one for wives not just husbands.

An open letter to my husband
Author Elaine

A woman who feels desired is many things:
She is less likely to reach frustration with
you
or the children
or the cat
or the dog.
She is more likely to feel like an important part of
your life
and the home you share
and the children you created together.
She is more likely to look at her own body
and instead of feeling disgust at the way it has changed
since bringing your children into the world,
she is more likely to remember the feel of
your hands on her hips
or trailing down her spine
or the way that you pull her in
and fit her perfectly into the spaces of your own form.
A woman who feels desired
is so much easier to sit across the table from
as she is less likely to be judging
her own skin
her own curves
her own worth
her place in the bed that you share.
She is more likely to care for the body she has been given,
feed it good, whole foods
put it to frequent use in the garden
enjoy the pull of muscle
and increasing strength
as she carries ever-growing children
and becomes more confident with household repairs.
A woman who feels desired will rear children
who see their bodies as perfect works of art
that should be celebrated
respected
and capable of love.

It takes very little to make a woman feel desired.
It does not require
expensive jewelery
exotic flowers
pages of poems
romantic dates
or even dramatic words.
You can tell a woman you desire her
with nothing more than a look
a simple touch
a well placed word
and by listening to what she's saying
and then responding appropriately.

Without those simple things
even a strong woman may start to feel
less.
And less leads to
depression
self loathing
anger
frustration
bad parenting
and a marriage
that may not last the next five years.

So when your wife asks you,
"Do you find me sexy?"
the answer should never be
a long pause
followed by a apologetic
"I just love you."

Lie to me
if you have to,
but tell me "yes"
and then watch
as my confidence continues
to bloom
and my heart stays open
even when the world
is throwing us curve balls.
Because sometimes,
a woman needs to know she is desired
or she'll start to believe
it is no longer true.